Aging

I am glad I look my age. I do not want to look older, but I do like looking my age. I do not want people thinking I am a teenager. I like the respect I get as an adult. I don't wear high school shirts or purposefully do things to make me look younger. I like having a mature look to me. I do not want to wear clothes teenagers would wear or dress like my daughter. Being an adult has some great advantages. Act your age. Dress your age. Mature with grace.

Passive Agressive

I am so over passive aggressive people. If you have something to say, just say it. Do not use family members to get what you want from me. Do not text me at 10pm about something that is months away. If we have already talked about and agreed on a plan, do not bring it up like this is the first time we ave talked. If I make plans I will follow through. Do not act like you are the only one making decisions and I am to follow. I am just so tired of it. Act like the grown up you are and have an actual conversation with me. If you have concerns, let me know and we will work it out together. You are not in charge of my life and I have the right to make decisions that do not involve you. Grow up.